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	<title>Comments on: wedding weekend sign off!</title>
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		<title>By: JW</title>
		<link>http://www.shelterrific.com/2007/09/21/wedding-weekend-sign-off/#comment-136845</link>
		<dc:creator>JW</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2007 21:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The more you try NOT to cry, the more likely it is you WILL cry*, and you'll be doing the ugly crying face thing.  Let your eyes well up, feel the depth of your emotion, share that with your nearest and dearest.  Mostly likely they'll be doing it, too.

*A little-known fact.  I learned this in an acting class.  We were discussing muscle memory, and did an exercise where we went through the motions of trying NOT to cry (tensing your mouth, widening eyes or laborious blinking, etc., whatever _you_ do), and it really made a difference--the whole room wasn't boo-hooing, but most people got teary, and this was without doing any emotional recall stuff--pure physicality.  It was crazy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The more you try NOT to cry, the more likely it is you WILL cry*, and you&#8217;ll be doing the ugly crying face thing.  Let your eyes well up, feel the depth of your emotion, share that with your nearest and dearest.  Mostly likely they&#8217;ll be doing it, too.</p>
<p>*A little-known fact.  I learned this in an acting class.  We were discussing muscle memory, and did an exercise where we went through the motions of trying NOT to cry (tensing your mouth, widening eyes or laborious blinking, etc., whatever _you_ do), and it really made a difference&#8211;the whole room wasn&#8217;t boo-hooing, but most people got teary, and this was without doing any emotional recall stuff&#8211;pure physicality.  It was crazy.</p>
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		<title>By: shelterrific &#187; Blog Archive &#187; five things we learned last week</title>
		<link>http://www.shelterrific.com/2007/09/21/wedding-weekend-sign-off/#comment-136707</link>
		<dc:creator>shelterrific &#187; Blog Archive &#187; five things we learned last week</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2007 15:26:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] The emotion shown in the images wil be wonderful for you to look back on. You&#8217;ll find more weepy wedding tips here.          [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] The emotion shown in the images wil be wonderful for you to look back on. You&#8217;ll find more weepy wedding tips here.          [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Timothy</title>
		<link>http://www.shelterrific.com/2007/09/21/wedding-weekend-sign-off/#comment-136353</link>
		<dc:creator>Timothy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2007 01:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Congratulations!  I hope you enjoy every minute of your special day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations!  I hope you enjoy every minute of your special day.</p>
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		<title>By: Carrie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carrie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 02:26:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You'll probably cry, but you wont' be the only one.  I was surprised how emotional I was doing the ceremony.  I had stuffed a tissue down my dress just in case and it made everyone laugh when I pulled it out.  

Enjoy and congratultions!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ll probably cry, but you wont&#8217; be the only one.  I was surprised how emotional I was doing the ceremony.  I had stuffed a tissue down my dress just in case and it made everyone laugh when I pulled it out.  </p>
<p>Enjoy and congratultions!</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
		<link>http://www.shelterrific.com/2007/09/21/wedding-weekend-sign-off/#comment-135455</link>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 23:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you cry, you cry. It'll be heartfelt and it's your wedding day. Happy cries are the best anyway!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you cry, you cry. It&#8217;ll be heartfelt and it&#8217;s your wedding day. Happy cries are the best anyway!</p>
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		<title>By: Mary</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 23:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just feel what you feel. If you cry, great! If you don't cry, it's still great! As long as you're happy, that's all that matters. Have a wonderful time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just feel what you feel. If you cry, great! If you don&#8217;t cry, it&#8217;s still great! As long as you&#8217;re happy, that&#8217;s all that matters. Have a wonderful time!</p>
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		<title>By: Ann Wilkinson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann Wilkinson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 22:35:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you're like me,  and I was really afraid I'd cry, your knees might do a strange twitch while you are standing at the altar, and you will be so afraid everyone will detect this, you won't be able to cry after all.  But whatever you do, this will be one of the most wonderful days of your life, and just enjoy it -- cry, tear up, laugh, whatever!  Best wishes to you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;re like me,  and I was really afraid I&#8217;d cry, your knees might do a strange twitch while you are standing at the altar, and you will be so afraid everyone will detect this, you won&#8217;t be able to cry after all.  But whatever you do, this will be one of the most wonderful days of your life, and just enjoy it &#8212; cry, tear up, laugh, whatever!  Best wishes to you!</p>
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		<title>By: bussbuss</title>
		<link>http://www.shelterrific.com/2007/09/21/wedding-weekend-sign-off/#comment-135400</link>
		<dc:creator>bussbuss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 21:13:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>congratulations! i'm sure it will be wonderful!!

can't wait to see pics.

bussbuss xx,
kelly

p.s. i totally second waterproof mascara. ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>congratulations! i&#8217;m sure it will be wonderful!!</p>
<p>can&#8217;t wait to see pics.</p>
<p>bussbuss xx,<br />
kelly</p>
<p>p.s. i totally second waterproof mascara. <img src='http://www.shelterrific.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Steph</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 19:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Enjoy every minute!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Enjoy every minute!</p>
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		<title>By: iloveupstate.com</title>
		<link>http://www.shelterrific.com/2007/09/21/wedding-weekend-sign-off/#comment-135326</link>
		<dc:creator>iloveupstate.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 17:23:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Water Proof Mascara. 

have a great day!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Water Proof Mascara. </p>
<p>have a great day!</p>
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