cohousing: the new commune?


I’ve been reading a bit about cohousing lately — there happen to be two communities within a mile of our new home. So what is it, you ask? It’s kinda cool, actually. According to cohousing.org, “Cohousing is a type of collaborative housing in which residents actively participate in the design and operation of their own neighborhoods. Cohousing residents are consciously committed to living as a community.” Each resident has responsibilities, like preparing a meal in the common house, or tending to the community garden. The cohousing communities near us are not only committed to their own residents, but to the environment as well, using green building techniques and starting neighborhood organic produce co-ops. I’d say they’re well on their way to, as they put it, “building a better society, one neighborhood at a time.” What do you think? –Megan B.

Tiffany S.

I love the concept in theory. Unfortunately, one bad apple can make it harder for everyone. I’m happy I don’t have to live with a condo board let alone someone I have to cook a meal with. I was really lucky when I did live in a small condo complex. We managed to get along *almost* perfectly.

Megan B

I’ll be honest- I wouldn’t be able to live in cohousing like this, but I definitely like that there are people who are community minded living in close proximity to us!

What a great idea.

It sounds a bit reminiscent of college dorms, and all the good and bad that goes with them.

Having close relationships with your neighbors can be wonderful if you get along, but horrible if you don’t. And it’s a gossip-fest.

I had some of my best memories in places like that, but I’m not sure I would want to go back to on a permanent basis.

Juniper

It sounded like a fun but scary idea (the one bad apple thing) until I got to the communal meals thing. Even when I shared a house with 3 other girls in college, we shopped and cooked separately. We were all quite opinionated about what the proper cost, time investment, nutritional content, and taste was for a meal, not to mention whom food could/should be shared with.

As for the one bad apple…I saw living together spoil many, many friendships. In fact the bestest-best friends whose friendship WASN’T hurt by living together was definitely the exception. I can’t imagine how much this would be complicated by expanding to a whole neighborhood of people with shared responsibilities.

Really, this would take monastic levels of commitment to work. I smell doom.