are we bad parents for not buying an organic mattress for our kid?

As anyone who has gone to a baby shower knows, having a kid requires a great deal of gear that you only really need for a short amount of time. All in all, we’ve been pretty happy with our choices — from our Dwell bedding to our Wal-Mart crib. But the one thing that I regret is not buying an organic mattress for our baby. We always hear about how important it is to buy quality mattresses for our own beds, so it makes sense that it is just as crucial for little ones — and they sleep A LOT. Still, it’s hard to find stores that sell organic mattresses — I’ve really only seen them online and in very high end stores. And they are pricey. At the end of the day, the baby will sleep well regardless. But when I read about mattressses like this one at Kolcraft, I wish we had splurged. It not only sounds incredibly comfy, but safe: It’s resistant to bacteria, odors, liquids, and stains, as well as bacteria, allergens, dust mites, and mildew. The price is just over $300, which isn’t too bad if you figure that babies sleep about 13 hours day and you’d use it for about three years. But that said, Isadora is almost 16 months old now. I’m guessing we’ll just live with the extremely non-organic Sealy mattress another year and half… right? — Angela M.

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Maybe not even that long. We ditched the crib (and the crib mattress) in favor of a twin bed right at 2 years old. Start researching your big-girl beds for Isadora now!

I bought an (organic) natural latex crib mattress for my kid. My husband and I also sleep on one and I find them really really really comfy. Plus there’s the whole lack of chemical fire retardants. I hope to use the crib mattress for a second child and then pass it on to someone else to use, so I don’t feel too bad about the price.

The only thing that drives me nuts about the mattress is that it is both floppy and heavy. Changing sheets in the crib is no fun. Overall I’m happy with the mattress, but when it comes down to it, it’s just a mattress. Heck, for all I know I slept on an asbestos mattress in a lead-painted crib and so far I’m doing okay…